From Father Steven - June 16, 2024

Father Steven Clemence • June 14, 2024

 

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

 

This weekend we celebrate Father’s Day! We are grateful to have Fr. Victor join our parish. Please see the letter below from Fr. Victor. Happy Father’s Day!

 

God Bless,

Fr. Steven

 

My Dear Parishioners,

 

I am your new priest in town. I flew in last week early morning at 12:40 AM from St. Croix, US Virgin Islands. My name is Fr. Victor Vitug. I was born and raised in the Philippines. My parents are Juanito Vitug & Leonila Luna, both are deceased. I still have 7 living siblings.

 

I entered the seminary when I was 57. It was a late vocation, actually “very late.” I was the one found by the Lord standing ‘idle’ almost at the closing hour. Basically, I see my life in the gospel of St. Matthew where the owner started calling for workers for his vineyard. He began at nine in the morning, then recruited some more at noon time and at 3:00 in the afternoon. And not wanting to miss anybody, he came back at the last hour, where he saw me standing and waiting.

 

For all my life, I was such a fool, having all the things I wanted but my life was empty. All I desired was to be happy, but I found myself in search of happiness in the wrong places and things. I was looking for money, fame, success and enjoying whatever life can give me. Going out for fun and doing basically what I want to do.

 

So immediately after graduating from college in 1973, wanting to gain experience, I got myself a job in the bank. I was hopping from one industry to another. From banking to Pharmaceuticals to transportation-shipping industry to the Airline, then to Hotel Industry and finally settled with the Insurance industry. It was a long and tortuous journey, but was necessary in order for me to discover the love of God. He was patiently waiting for the right moment. He never gave up on me. He never ceased loving me. And the best part, he kept pursuing me like a true lover until finally surrendered myself to him and welcomed the kind of love he has for me. I understood what St. Augustine meant when he wrote, ‘my restless heart, found rest in him, simply because we were made for him.’ At hindsight, responding at the last hour was actually the “perfect” time for me. There could be no other hour for me than that. Thanks to the community I joined 32 years ago, it was very instrumental in leading and showing me the mission the Lord has prepared for me today.

 

At 67, I was ordained a priest for the Archdiocese of Boston at the Holy Cross Cathedral in May 2019, together with 12 men. My first assignment was at Reading, Massachusetts at the St. Agnes and St. Athanasius for two years. Then I was a hospital chaplain briefly before I was sent to the Virgin Islands where I served as Parochial Vicar for two years. My pastor was Fr. Andrea Fillippuci who used to be one of your priests sometime ago. Still strong and walking at 72, Cardinal Sean O’Malley sent me here to Immaculate Conception to continue my mission. Together with Fr. Steven and Fr. Gabriel, our two young & energetic priests, may we continue to minister to all your spiritual needs and a witness of the love and mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ in our lives.

 

Thank you for welcoming me to your “home.”

 

Yours in Christ,

Fr. Victor 

From Father Steven - February 8, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • February 6, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, Please see the letter below from David and Stephanie Ringland, our parishioners, about the upcoming Couples Retreat February 21st. This will be a wonderful day for our couples!! This retreat is for couples of all ages and stages committed to growing deeper in love, in faith and in God’s Calling. The day will include meaningful conversations, guided workshops, stories and lunch. This is designed to strengthen connection and renew commitment. We are looking forward to seeing you! God Bless, Fr. Steven ———————————————- Greetings Fellow Parishioners! Are you distracted? There are so many things in the world today that compete for your time and attention, whether it's the late-night work deadlines, the news feed on your cell phone, the ads on the radio, who or what was posted on Facebook, or the what's playing next on your TV....to name a few of them. We have all become desensitized by the remarkable availability of these distractions in our lives. As a result, it has become easier to be drawn away from the relationships that actually matter to us as we focus on those other things. If you have been together for a while, maybe it is the distraction of money, material wealth and competition with a family that seems to be perfect from the outside, or even coveting your neighbor's spouse. It's mostly unintentional, but over time, the detachment and avoidance of the negatives in a relationship can impact a couple and become significant obstacles that can feel insurmountable at times. As we age, just like interest, these things compound and can feel heavy to the point of breaking. We become tired and feel beaten and abused, but can’t identify the source of it. In reality, it is the overwhelming weight of complacency that rests on our shoulders that can lead to finger pointing and accusations when anything goes out of the ordinary. If you have children, like we do, you can see this manifest in the way that their attention is diverted from helping around the house or helping each other, or how quickly a task like homework can evolve into mindless scrolling when an electronic is involved. Their behavior may echo what they see and the complacency that many of us have fallen victim to. That is why when we learned that there would be a couple's retreat in February, we were happy to become involved. Not only is it a great example of how vibrant the parish is here at Immaculate Conception, but it's a fantastic opportunity to reconnect with each other in a no-judgment zone. We welcome the chance to spend some time with each other to rediscover the Holy Spirit's presence within our relationship, and how our love for each other will be magnified by the end of the day on February 21st. Whether you are married, engaged, or a couple that has been dating for 20 years, we invite you to join us for part of a day at a retreat that is guaranteed to be nothing short of profoundly moving and entertaining! Should you know a couple going through a rough patch or one that has been dating for 20 years, bring them too! You may be the catalyst that they need to revitalize their love or finally make the commitment. Childcare will be available during the event in order for you to make your date-day at Immaculate Conception. Your date-night is up to you, but we know that it will be extra special with the one you love. God bless, David & Stephanie Ringland

From Father Steven - February 1, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • January 30, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, This past week, the parish took a bus loaded with youth to attend the March for Life in Washington. It was really a blessing to all of us. We attended an event held on Friday morning by the Sisters of Life. During Mass, New York's auxiliary Bishop, Joseph Espaillat, delivered a passionate and energetic homily centered on the consistent dignity of human life and a full Catholic pro-life ethic, delivered a powerful homily. Drawing from the Church’s teachings and the Second Vatican Council’s pastoral constitution Gaudium et Spes , he invited all in attendance to embrace every aspect of a life-affirming vision, not just select issues. I would like to share some points with you. In his homily, Bishop Joseph Espaillat energizes the congregation by acknowledging their sacrifice in waking early, traveling long distances, and enduring fatigue to be present. Drawing on his own experience of attending the March for Life as a teenager and seminarian, he reassures especially young people that the effort is worth it, emphasizing a repeated refrain: “In the end, love wins.” This phrase becomes the central theme of his message, underscoring that love—not anger, exhaustion, or despair—is the Christian response to the struggles surrounding life issues. Bishop Espaillat situates the pro-life movement within the broader faith and tradition of the Church. He stresses that Catholics do not rely solely on Scripture, but also on Sacred Tradition and the Magisterium. He highlights the importance of Vatican II documents, lamenting that many Catholics—laypeople and clergy alike—are unfamiliar with them despite their relevance. The Church, he explains, has a “constitution” similar to that of a nation: Gaudium et Spes , the Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the Modern World. Focusing especially on Paragraph 27 of Gaudium et Spes , Bishop Espaillat walks the congregation through a list of violations against human dignity. He emphasizes that being pro-life is not a single-issue stance. While abortion is affirmed as a grave moral evil and a central concern, it cannot be isolated from other life issues. The document condemns murder, abortion, euthanasia, suicide, torture, coercion, subhuman living conditions, arbitrary imprisonment, deportation, slavery, human trafficking, and exploitative labor. According to the bishop, Catholics cannot “pick and choose” which lives deserve protection. To do so undermines the Gospel and weakens the Church’s moral witness. He reinforces this point by quoting Fulton Sheen and his own seminary professors: refusing to take a stand on major moral issues is itself a decision and amounts to silent cooperation with evil. By choosing to travel to Washington, D.C., the faithful have already made a decision—to stand publicly for life and truth. Bishop Espaillat explains that disrespect for life poisons society, leading to violence, war, and hatred. When life is not honored—beginning in the womb—all of society suffers. At the same time, he offers hope: the Christian response is to listen, teach, and send. The Church must listen to one another across generations and roles, teach clearly without relativism, and then send disciples into the world as witnesses. Returning to the Gospel, he reflects on King David’s choice of mercy over violence and calls for a consistent life ethic grounded in compassion, truth, and love. Quoting Popes John Paul II, Benedict XVI, and Francis, he rejects the “throwaway culture” and urges defense of the unborn, the poor, the sick, the elderly, and the marginalized. He concludes by encouraging the faithful, especially young people, to respond to opposition with love, to be light rather than hostility, and to remember their mission: they are summoned, appointed, and sent. His final message echoes his opening refrain— love is the answer, and in the end, love wins . God Bless, Fr. Steven