From Father Steven - May 26, 2024

Father Steven Clemence • May 24, 2024


Dear Brothers and Sisters,


Our parish community has experienced a range of emotions lately. We've celebrated joyful moments

like First Communions and the Crowning of Mary, but also faced sorrow in farewells like Fr.

Kevin's departure and personal struggles. How do we find strength through these ups and

downs? The answer lies in the very heart of our faith: the Eucharist, the Body and Blood of Christ,

Next week we celebrate the Feast of Corpus Christi. A feast that reminds us of the incredible gift

Jesus left us.


Just as we prepare for a journey, Christ prepared for ours by leaving His Body and Blood. Before

his sacrifice, He established the Eucharist as our sustenance on our pilgrimage to heaven. Communion

nourishes our souls like food nourishes our bodies. Imagine if we didn't have access to this

essential nourishment! The Eucharist is like the sun for our souls – vital for our spiritual well-being.

Without this “energy pill,” we become weak and succumb to the smallest temptation. With it, we become

Christ-like, by loving, forgiving, helping others, giving without counting the cost. Now imagine

that instead of receiving this “pill” once a week you were able to receive it during the week? This is

why we have mass every morning at 7:30am!!! Come and join us!


To fully receive this gift, we need to prepare ourselves. Proper preparation is key. Think of the Eucharist

like a special family dinner. We wouldn't attend in dirty clothes. Similarly, we need to prepare

our hearts through the sacrament of Confession. Serious sin, like missing Mass or one of the 7 capital

sins, separates us from God's grace. Confession allows us to restore communion and receive

the Eucharist worthily. St. Paul says that when we receive communion in mortal sin we partake of

our own condemnation. Please, understand that it is not a matter of being worthy of receiving communion,

because no one is. It's not about being perfect, but about being prepared. The Church recommends

annual confession at least, but more frequent reconciliation is always encouraged. If you

need to confess your sins, we can help you.


Finally, it is important to share the understanding of the Eucharist with others. Many people, including

Catholics, do not believe that the consecrated host is the Body of Christ, often thinking it is

merely symbolic. There have been numerous instances where the consecrated host bled in the

hands of the priest or the blood of Christ coagulated in the chalice. Some of these occurrences have

happened recently.


Next week, we will hold a grand celebration to honor the Body and Blood of our Lord. We will have a

mega trilingual mass outside (rain or shine) at 11 a.m., followed by a procession through the streets

of Marlboro. So we will not have the 9:00am or the 1:00pm masses. Despite the challenge posed by

the car show on Main Street, we trust in Our Lord to provide for us. A special sawdust carpet, following

the tradition of some South American countries decorated to welcome our Lord, will be created

on Prospect Street (which will be closed for traffic on Sunday). Some parishioners have been

preparing for this moment for months. I invite you to attend the mass and join our procession, bringing

Jesus to the streets of our city. See you next week.


God Bless,

Fr. Steven




By Father Steven Clemence March 20, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, As you may be aware, we are starting our next Bereavement Ministry on March 31st. This is the third session we are offering to those who have suffered the loss of a loved one. The loss can be a recent one or one from years ago. We will be following the Catholic program called Seasons of Hope. I encourage you to participate to find support and comfort within our faith-filled community. God Bless, Fr. Steven ——————————————————————— Bereavement Ministry: Seasons of Hope to Begin As we mourn together, our parish bereavement team of Nancy Papp, Mark Vital, and Nancy Wells would like to personally invite anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one to attend Immaculate Conception’s next bereavement session which will begin on Tuesday evening, March 31st at 6:30 pm in the Lower Church and continue for six consecutive Tuesday evenings ending on Tuesday, May 5th. There are no stages to grief. We all experience grief in our own unique way, and healing is an intentional process, where we gather as a community of faith to become disciples of hope. It is through prayerful reflection, practical learning, and personal fellowship that we mourn. We will be following the Catholic program called Seasons of Hope . It is a 6-week program based on Scripture that focuses our faith on the spiritual side of grieving. Our mission is to support and accompany those going through the grieving process through Scripture, prayer, reflection, and simple activities. The program centers on Jesus Christ and is founded in the wisdom, traditions, and practices of the Church. It provides an opportunity for those who are grieving to be together, share their experiences, listen to God, and to each other, and be heard and comforted. St. John of the Cross, a Carmelite and Doctor of the Church, said: “In sorrow and suffering, go straight to God with confidence, and you will be strengthened, enlightened and instructed.” Fr. Mike Schmitz (many of you know him from his Bible in a Year podcast) was asked in an interview once about suffering. He responded: “God doesn’t always take the pain away. God doesn’t take the grief away. God doesn’t undo your loved one’s death. But with hope, our faith in God can console us.” Once again, we warmly invite those mourning to “come and be comforted.” Please call Lee Ann at the parish office to register. This program has helped hundreds of people mourn the loss of a loved one. We are delighted to bring this ministry to you again and hope and pray you will consider attending. Thank you and please keep us and those we serve in your prayers. The Bereavement Team: Nancy Papp, Nancy Wells, Mark Vital
By Father Steven Clemence March 13, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, Last week we heard the terrible news from the Diocese of Providence regarding the abuse of minors by clergy. Any form of abuse of minors is always despicable. In this particular case, not only is there the problem of the priests themselves, which would be unacceptable, but it seems that there were also problems in the hierarchy/administration as well. Once I heard an expression that portrays well this issue: one is way too many. Every victim counts. It is very unfortunate that so many cases of abuse happened in the past, and even worse when they happened in the Church, where it should be a safe place for every person. For many years, anything related to abuse was always a big taboo that no one ever spoke about, much less reported. In 2002, the Boston Globe reported the systematic abuse that happened in the Archdiocese of Boston for decades. The Church has failed its people. Even if there were only one single case, one is too many. With the arrival of Cardinal Sean O’Malley, many rules and procedures were adopted to guarantee the safeguarding of children and vulnerable adults. The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops also changed their protocols to never allow any sort of omission of abuse. Mandatory training for all volunteers who have contact with children and yearly background checks for all volunteers are some examples of what was adopted. There was also some support offered to victims. However, there are more out there who have never reached out. The problem is far from its resolution. Although many changes have taken place in the Church, we must remain vigilant. Abuse remains a terrible reality in many parts of society—from schools to sports and other institutions—and the Church must always strive to be a place where children and vulnerable people are protected and safe. Nowadays, there is also a call to protect vulnerable people, such as the elderly and anyone with special needs. Although there is a policy that requires certain people to report any form of abuse to the authorities (mandated reporters), it is the duty of every person to protect their neighbor. I would like to plan a day or evening to offer training from the Archdiocese to everyone who would like to participate. There we can also explain all the efforts that are being made in the Church to promote a safe environment for anyone who comes to the parishes in the Archdiocese of Boston. On a related topic, for anyone who has suffered any sort of abuse, we also want to offer help. There can be a stigma that pushes victims away because of shame. A person can even feel guilty for having allowed such a thing. God is there to help us take things off our chest and from our souls. This can be expanded to other kinds of traumas that we keep only to ourselves. How many times have we heard in the past that people bring such things to their tombs? God is here to help us carry our burdens. We priests are also available to listen and offer whatever resources may assist anyone who is suffering. There is help that can be offered, whether through professional counselors, victim assistance, or independent resources. On the spiritual side, we do know that God heals our wounds, accompanies us in our journeys, and helps us carry our crosses. In moments like this, when human failures are so evident, we are reminded that our hope ultimately rests in Christ. Only He can help us live by His grace. Only He can console us when we are tired and burdened. Only He can bring us to green pastures to refresh our soul. Only He is the way, the truth, and the life. Let us then follow Him up to the Cross, because if we die with Him, we shall also live with Him. And if people need our help, let us not neglect their needs. Let us be there for them, to listen, or even hold their hands in their journey. No one should be left behind…no one.  God Bless, Fr. Steven