From Father Steven - December 3, 2023

December 4, 2023

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

 

This week we have the celebration of Immaculate Conception, our patroness. It is also our parish feast! I’m not sure how many people are aware of our parish history. I would like to share a few facts from the beginning of the Immaculate Conception Parish.

 

The first priest assigned to Marlboro was Fr. Edward Farrelly back in 1850. Prior to that, families had to walk eight miles to the nearest mass in Saxonville. With the growth of the population due to the shoe factories, Bishop Fitzpatrick saw the need to send a priest to minister to the Catholics of the area. In 1854, Father Farrelly began to build a church on Charles Street and in November he celebrated the first mass. Originally he named the church St. Columba (Columbkille) after one of the Irish patron saints. However, that same year the Dogma of the Immaculate Conception was approved by the church under Pope Pius IX. Although the belief that the Virgin Mary was conceived without original sin was a long-standing tradition of the Church, only then it was declared a definite teaching. Bishop Fitzpatrick intervened at the creation of the parish and decided to dedicate it to the Immaculate Conception. A few years later in 1862, under the new pastor, Fr Walsh, the property on Prospect Street was purchased and they started the construction of the new church. Nine years later, the new church was dedicated by Archbishop Williams. The bell tower was incorporated into the church roughly twenty years later. It was the same that fell during the hurricane of 1938 (one of the most severe to hit New England). A new one, shorter in height, would be built after that.

 

Much more could be said about our parish and the church building, such as the emblems of the different titles of Mary on the top of the walls of the main nave. However, the parish and the church are more than the buildings. WE ARE THE PARISH. Now, as a parish, we are called to be a sign of the presence of Christ in Marlboro both in word and deed. Although times have changed from the beginning of the parish, people are still in need of Jesus. Many families are breaking up, people who cannot forgive, and those who are lost. This week God calls us to reflect upon our actions in the church. What are we doing to help in the mission of Christ in the world? There are many people who are evangelizing in different ways, whether visiting houses door to door, helping the poor through St. Vincent de Paul, and many other groups. And what about the rest of us? Today we have an average of almost 2000 people coming to all the masses of the parish through the weekend. Imagine what we can all do together?! As we continue in this process of discernment and growth of the parish, we can follow the example of the Blessed Mother, who made herself available to whatever God called her. In order to help us prepare to celebrate the Feast of the Immaculate Conception on Friday, I would like to invite everyone to participate in the Triduum (3 days) of prayer with the preaching of guests reflecting upon the life of Mary. Please see the information below. As for the Feast day, December 8th, which is a day of Obligation, we will have masses at 7:30am, 12:10pm, and a major celebration at 7:00pm with the Trilingual mass following reception. Please join us as much as you can! 

 

God Bless,

Fr. Steven

From Father Steven - August 30, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • August 28, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, I was very happy that I finally had the opportunity a month ago to speak about vaping addiction among the youth. Today, I would like to speak about addictions in general that affect and hurt our families, parish, community, and, above all, ourselves. First of all, it is important to understand that usually no one likes to have an addiction. Substance abuse is not something a person simply chooses to become trapped in. Rather, very often, it is the only resource that a person finds in their struggle. The other day, I was talking to a social worker at the hospital about how we have lost so many of our coping skills. We no longer have the resilience that we used to have in the past. Addiction is often more than a bad habit or a lack of willpower. For many people, it can be connected to pain, trauma, loneliness, or an attempt to cope with difficulties they do not know how to face in healthier ways. Therefore, it can often be understood as a cry for help from someone who is suffering. Once we understand that people may turn to drugs, alcohol, or other substances in an attempt to relieve their pain, we also need to recognize that repeated substance use can produce real changes in the brain and body. A person can develop tolerance, dependence, and powerful cravings that make stopping extremely difficult. This is why addiction cannot simply be reduced to a lack of willpower. What may have begun as an attempt to cope with pain can eventually become a dependency that is very difficult to overcome without help. Anyone who suffers from substance abuse does not need judgment, but love and compassion. As Catholics, we believe that love conquers all things. We also believe that for God, nothing is impossible. Therefore, if there is someone in your family, in your circle of friends, an acquaintance, or even a stranger, let us go the extra mile and be compassionate. Christ does not abandon the person who is suffering. He goes out of His way to bring love and consolation, like the Good Samaritan. He certainly suffers with that person. If Christ does this for us, how can we, as His disciples, do anything less for those who are suffering? The more involved I become in helping people here in Marlboro, the more I discover the many resources available through the city and other agencies. I will try to pull together a sheet with different resources in the community and leave them in the church for those who need them. If someone struggles with alcoholism, drug or medication abuse, or some other sort of addiction, YOU ARE NOT ALONE…and YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE ALONE. God wants to help, and so do we. It is okay; we all have problems, and the solutions at times can seem so far from our reach that we give up. Maybe now is the time to get up and start walking back to the Father’s house, like the Prodigal Son. Maybe now is the time that, together, we will overcome the struggles that lead to addiction.  I invite everyone in our parish to join us for the Overdose Awareness Day ceremony here at the Immaculate Conception Church on Monday August 31 at 7:15pm. Let us come together to remember those whose lives have been lost (you may bring their picture), support those who continue to struggle, and pray for their families and loved ones. Always count with your prayers to you and your loved ones, God bless Fr. Steven

From Father Steven - August 23, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • August 19, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, I hope you are enjoying your summer! I, along with some of the youth of our parish, attended the Steubenville East conference in Springfield a few weeks ago. It is a 3 day catholic conference for high school teens to encounter Christ through eucharistic adoration, the sacraments and dynamic sessions all produced by Lifeteen and Franciscan University. The conference was attended by thousands of youth from all over New England with the hope to ignite life long discipleship in our teens. We have asked one of our youth to share with you a bit of his experience. Please see the letter written by Gabriel Torres below. God Bless, Fr. Gabriel ——————————————— Hello and Happy Sunday, or whenever it is that you read this. I am Gabriel Torres and I am a part of the youth group here, at Immaculate Conception. We, the youth, Fr. Gabriel, and a handful of chaperones recently attended a life changing 3 day Steubenville conference in Springfield. And when I say life changing, I really mean it. I thought the same as you, when Cecilia, our religious education director told us about it. I wanted to go, but was kinda doubting that it could be that fun and life changing, as it is a big statement. I thought that it would just be us, listening to priests talk about Jesus, and I would have gone for that, but it turned out to be so much more. On the first day after the first talk and mini worship concert (with a mosh pit and everything), we were asked to come up with one word to describe how we felt about the conference so far. The word that I chose was Connection. And I still agree, and I think anyone that went would agree. Just feeling the connection between yourself and the Lord, and how that connection spread between each signing heart was just purely gorgeous and fulfilling. Seeing thousands of youth come together and praise the Lord was inspiring. The conference was fun with singing and dancing breaks, with people trying to be as close to the music as possible, and games that got the whole center laughing, all the way down to the serious moments when the speakers were speaking the truths of our hearts. The way that you could just raise your hands and pray to the Lord without having to worry what others might think, but instead feeling the connection to those around you and feeling how through God we were all connected, loved, and worthy, brought tears to even those of us who ‘never’ cry. There was just a rawness at this conference that I have never felt anywhere else. So, if you are a youth, teen, or know someone who might be interested in this conference, I encourage you to come next year. If you have friends that are not fully in the faith, or are Christian and not Catholic, invite them. A Christian teen that I got closer to at the conference told us on day one that he didn’t fully understand everything we did or why, but that he believed in Jesus Christ and that he wanted to follow Jesus, wherever it took him. And that was here. Thank you to all who donated to make this possible, and thank you for allowing us to experience the Lord in a new way. Thank you, and God Bless you all. Your brother in Christ, Gabriel Torres