From Father Steven - August 11, 2024

Father Steven Clemence • August 9, 2024

 

Dear Brothers and Sisters, 

 

Please see the letter below from Janet Guzman. Janet is one of our parishioners who left on mission to the Caribbean last year.

 

God Bless,

Fr. Steven

 

Hello, My name is Janet Guzman. Some of you may remember me from a blurb in the bulletin from about a year ago. I was starting my journey in discerning my vocation and I was sent to the Caribbean as a missionary teacher. Looking at the large number of youth on the island, priests felt that the island was in need of a chance at a Catholic Education. Thus, in August 2006, Holy Family Academy was established with just two classes, Kindergarten and First Grade with less than ten students. Today, we serve grades Pre-K to 12th grade and with the help of St. Thomas University, we are helping the students receive a college education as well. All together we have almost 200 students. At Holy Family Academy, our model is to live in humility, simplicity, and praise where the other is Christ.


For a lot of children, school is the place where they feel most loved. Most children come from broken families, suffer abuse and poverty. As a missionary teacher it is not only my duty to provide them an education but to help strengthen their faith and to remind them that they are loved by God. Every morning, the school gathers in the courtyard to begin our day with prayer. We always say “God is love, and he loves us.” This is our daily reminder not only for the students but also for the teachers. Some days are tough and it is hard to think that God could allow such situations in our lives. With this saying, we also remember that God makes everything perfect. In all of our situations, as hard as they may be, God is with us through it all because of His love for us.


Holy Family Academy has a unique spirituality unlike anything else I have ever experienced. A school in which the students are loving and kind to one another. If problems arise they are willing to forgive and ask for forgiveness. The students take active roles in the school. They lector, sing, and they also play musical instruments during the school liturgical celebrations. All of this is done without fear or shame. To be able to witness all of these miracles day in and day out has been a huge blessing for me. Not only do they learn from me, but I learn from them as well.


As a result of a wonderful year on mission, I feel as though God is calling me to do an additional year. This upcoming school year I will be teaching Social Studies and Science to the Kindergarten class as well as taking on Special Education and Physical Education. These classes hold a special place in my heart and I am excited to see what the Lord has in store for me. For this to be possible, I am accepting donations so that my classes may have what they need for the year. Being a missionary means that I do not receive any form of payment for my work. Everything I have is all thanks to the providence of God. Blessed be to God for providing the needs of the school through many generous benefactors and friends of the mission.

If you would like to make a donation, please visit my Amazon Wishlist by scanning the QR code. Anything and everything is very much appreciated. Pray for me, as I will be praying for all of you at Immaculate Conception.

 

Peace,

Janet Guzman

 

From Father Steven - February 8, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • February 6, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, Please see the letter below from David and Stephanie Ringland, our parishioners, about the upcoming Couples Retreat February 21st. This will be a wonderful day for our couples!! This retreat is for couples of all ages and stages committed to growing deeper in love, in faith and in God’s Calling. The day will include meaningful conversations, guided workshops, stories and lunch. This is designed to strengthen connection and renew commitment. We are looking forward to seeing you! God Bless, Fr. Steven ———————————————- Greetings Fellow Parishioners! Are you distracted? There are so many things in the world today that compete for your time and attention, whether it's the late-night work deadlines, the news feed on your cell phone, the ads on the radio, who or what was posted on Facebook, or the what's playing next on your TV....to name a few of them. We have all become desensitized by the remarkable availability of these distractions in our lives. As a result, it has become easier to be drawn away from the relationships that actually matter to us as we focus on those other things. If you have been together for a while, maybe it is the distraction of money, material wealth and competition with a family that seems to be perfect from the outside, or even coveting your neighbor's spouse. It's mostly unintentional, but over time, the detachment and avoidance of the negatives in a relationship can impact a couple and become significant obstacles that can feel insurmountable at times. As we age, just like interest, these things compound and can feel heavy to the point of breaking. We become tired and feel beaten and abused, but can’t identify the source of it. In reality, it is the overwhelming weight of complacency that rests on our shoulders that can lead to finger pointing and accusations when anything goes out of the ordinary. If you have children, like we do, you can see this manifest in the way that their attention is diverted from helping around the house or helping each other, or how quickly a task like homework can evolve into mindless scrolling when an electronic is involved. Their behavior may echo what they see and the complacency that many of us have fallen victim to. That is why when we learned that there would be a couple's retreat in February, we were happy to become involved. Not only is it a great example of how vibrant the parish is here at Immaculate Conception, but it's a fantastic opportunity to reconnect with each other in a no-judgment zone. We welcome the chance to spend some time with each other to rediscover the Holy Spirit's presence within our relationship, and how our love for each other will be magnified by the end of the day on February 21st. Whether you are married, engaged, or a couple that has been dating for 20 years, we invite you to join us for part of a day at a retreat that is guaranteed to be nothing short of profoundly moving and entertaining! Should you know a couple going through a rough patch or one that has been dating for 20 years, bring them too! You may be the catalyst that they need to revitalize their love or finally make the commitment. Childcare will be available during the event in order for you to make your date-day at Immaculate Conception. Your date-night is up to you, but we know that it will be extra special with the one you love. God bless, David & Stephanie Ringland

From Father Steven - February 1, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • January 30, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, This past week, the parish took a bus loaded with youth to attend the March for Life in Washington. It was really a blessing to all of us. We attended an event held on Friday morning by the Sisters of Life. During Mass, New York's auxiliary Bishop, Joseph Espaillat, delivered a passionate and energetic homily centered on the consistent dignity of human life and a full Catholic pro-life ethic, delivered a powerful homily. Drawing from the Church’s teachings and the Second Vatican Council’s pastoral constitution Gaudium et Spes , he invited all in attendance to embrace every aspect of a life-affirming vision, not just select issues. I would like to share some points with you. In his homily, Bishop Joseph Espaillat energizes the congregation by acknowledging their sacrifice in waking early, traveling long distances, and enduring fatigue to be present. Drawing on his own experience of attending the March for Life as a teenager and seminarian, he reassures especially young people that the effort is worth it, emphasizing a repeated refrain: “In the end, love wins.” This phrase becomes the central theme of his message, underscoring that love—not anger, exhaustion, or despair—is the Christian response to the struggles surrounding life issues. Bishop Espaillat situates the pro-life movement within the broader faith and tradition of the Church. He stresses that Catholics do not rely solely on Scripture, but also on Sacred Tradition and the Magisterium. He highlights the importance of Vatican II documents, lamenting that many Catholics—laypeople and clergy alike—are unfamiliar with them despite their relevance. The Church, he explains, has a “constitution” similar to that of a nation: Gaudium et Spes , the Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the Modern World. Focusing especially on Paragraph 27 of Gaudium et Spes , Bishop Espaillat walks the congregation through a list of violations against human dignity. He emphasizes that being pro-life is not a single-issue stance. While abortion is affirmed as a grave moral evil and a central concern, it cannot be isolated from other life issues. The document condemns murder, abortion, euthanasia, suicide, torture, coercion, subhuman living conditions, arbitrary imprisonment, deportation, slavery, human trafficking, and exploitative labor. According to the bishop, Catholics cannot “pick and choose” which lives deserve protection. To do so undermines the Gospel and weakens the Church’s moral witness. He reinforces this point by quoting Fulton Sheen and his own seminary professors: refusing to take a stand on major moral issues is itself a decision and amounts to silent cooperation with evil. By choosing to travel to Washington, D.C., the faithful have already made a decision—to stand publicly for life and truth. Bishop Espaillat explains that disrespect for life poisons society, leading to violence, war, and hatred. When life is not honored—beginning in the womb—all of society suffers. At the same time, he offers hope: the Christian response is to listen, teach, and send. The Church must listen to one another across generations and roles, teach clearly without relativism, and then send disciples into the world as witnesses. Returning to the Gospel, he reflects on King David’s choice of mercy over violence and calls for a consistent life ethic grounded in compassion, truth, and love. Quoting Popes John Paul II, Benedict XVI, and Francis, he rejects the “throwaway culture” and urges defense of the unborn, the poor, the sick, the elderly, and the marginalized. He concludes by encouraging the faithful, especially young people, to respond to opposition with love, to be light rather than hostility, and to remember their mission: they are summoned, appointed, and sent. His final message echoes his opening refrain— love is the answer, and in the end, love wins . God Bless, Fr. Steven