From Father Steven - November 17, 2024

Father Steven Clemence • November 15, 2024

 

Dear Brothers and Sisters, 

 

As we have been praying for the faithful departed and for the souls in Purgatory especially this month, I came across this article that I thought you would enjoy reading.

 

God Bless,

Fr. Steven

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As we journey through this season of grace, it is a fitting moment to reflect on a vital aspect of our Catholic faith—our duty and privilege to pray for the souls in Purgatory. In our fast-paced world, it is easy to overlook the reality of purgation and the immense mercy of God that extends even to those who have not yet attained the full perfection necessary to enter the glory of Heaven. Yet, the Church teaches us that these souls, though assured of eternal salvation, still require our prayers, acts of charity, and offerings of sacrifice.

 

The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches that "all who die in God's grace and friendship, but still imperfectly purified, are indeed assured of their eternal salvation; but after death they undergo purification, so as to achieve the holiness necessary to enter the joy of God" (CCC 1030). This state of purification is what we refer to as Purgatory. It is not a place of punishment, but a merciful process by which the soul is made ready to behold the face of God.

 

Why We Pray for the Dead

As members of the Body of Christ, we are called to support one another, both the living and the dead, in our shared pilgrimage towards eternity. Our prayers for the souls in Purgatory are an act of love, charity, and solidarity with those who have gone before us. The Church has always taught that those who have departed this life in grace but still require purification can be helped by the prayers and sacrifices of the living. In the Book of Maccabees, we find the example of the faithful offering prayers for those who have died, so that they might be freed from their sins (2 Maccabees 12:46). This practice has been passed down through the centuries as a sign of our communion with the saints and the faithful departed.

 

We may sometimes forget that our prayers are not just for those we knew personally, but for all souls who are in need of God’s mercy. It is a beautiful expression of our faith that we can intercede for others, knowing that God hears our petitions, and His mercy is infinite.

 

How We Can Help the Souls in Purgatory

There are many ways we can offer our prayers for the souls in Purgatory. The most powerful prayer is the Holy Mass, for in the Eucharistic celebration, Christ’s sacrifice on the Cross is made present to us. By offering Mass for the dead, we unite ourselves to Christ's eternal offering, bringing grace and mercy to those who are in need of purification.

 

In addition to the Mass, we can pray the Rosary, especially the prayers for the dead—such as the “Eternal Rest” prayer. Offering indulgences, fasting, and performing acts of charity can also be of great benefit to the souls in Purgatory. As St. John Paul II often reminded us, our acts of love, no matter how small, have eternal consequences, especially when offered for the sake of others. Another way to support the souls in Purgatory is by participating in the tradition of “praying for the dead” during the month of November, particularly on All Souls' Day (November 2), when the Church specifically remembers and prays for all the faithful departed. This is a time for us to recall the reality of death and the importance of our intercession.

 

A Call to Compassionate Solidarity

As we approach the end of this liturgical year, let us remember the souls of those who have gone before us and entrust them to God’s mercy. Let us also examine our own lives and ask God to purify us from any attachments to sin or imperfection, so that when our time comes, we too may be ready to enter into the fullness of His glory. It is a gift and a responsibility to be able to pray for the dead, as it reflects our deep belief in the communion of saints and the mercy of God. In this life, we are bound together in prayer, and that bond does not end with death. The souls in Purgatory are still part of our family in Christ, and they need our help. Let us not neglect them, but offer them our prayers, especially in this holy season.

 



From Father Steven - May 10, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • May 8, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, Since leaving high school, I do not think I had ever opened the Britannica Encyclopedia again. Yet while preparing for this weekend’s theme, I came across a very interesting entry: Mother’s Day. I had never really wondered how this celebration began. After doing some research, I discovered how it developed through different cultures and times, including a tradition in England when the faithful would visit the church where they had been baptized — their “mother church.” The modern observance of Mother’s Day traces back to Anna Jarvis, who honored her mother, Anna Jarvis, in 1908. After the Civil War, Anna Jarvis promoted reconciliation between Union and Confederate veterans. One day, she offered a prayer during Sunday school that her daughter never forgot: “I hope and pray that someone, sometime, will found a memorial Mother’s Day commemorating her for the matchless service she renders to humanity in every field of life.” Those words remained deeply in her daughter’s heart. After her mother’s death, Anna Jarvis began advocating for a special day dedicated to honoring mothers. In 1908, the first Mother’s Day service was held at her mother’s church in West Virginia. A few years later, every state celebrated Mother’s Day, until President Wilson declared it a national holiday. In many ways, the figure of a mother resembles Christ Himself, who “came not to be served, but to serve.” Mothers are often behind the scenes, taking the last place and putting the needs of others before their own. Much of their hard work and countless sacrifices may go unnoticed, yet God, “who sees in secret, will repay you.” Certainly, it feels good to receive recognition and praise, but our first calling is to please God. Jesus commands us to love one another as He has loved us, and He says nothing about seeking recognition. In fact, throughout the Scriptures, Jesus repeatedly avoids drawing attention to Himself. Many times, He even tells people not to speak about what He has done. In our digital age, when people often share everything publicly, Jesus reminds us of the beauty of doing good quietly and humbly. The Gospel also tells us that the Son of Man came to serve and “to give His life.” In a similar way, mothers are constantly giving their lives for others. The sacrifice of self-denial is among the greatest acts of love. Just as Christ died so that we might live, mothers often deny themselves so that others may flourish. Whether it is caring for the home, cooking, cleaning, gardening, helping the children, finding everything for everyone, or all of the above, their daily sacrifices make an enormous difference, even when they go unnoticed. Therefore, regardless of our age, let us take a moment to reflect on how often our mothers denied themselves for our sake. Let us remember all they have done in loving service to us. They may not have been perfect, but in most cases, they gave us way more than their best. Today, inspired by Anna Jarvis, let us honor mothers “for the matchless service [they render] to humanity in every field of life.” To all mothers — those here on earth and those already in heaven — THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU.  God Bless, Fr. Steven

From Father Steven - May 3, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • May 1, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, It is with great joy that today we celebrate our First Communion. I don’t know how much you remember from the day you received your First Communion. Unfortunately, I also remember very little. Last week, I asked one of the children who had received their First Communion how it felt, and more than the words they used, you should have seen the joy in their smile. Lucky for us, this weekend we can experience their joy as well, because each time we receive Communion it is just as amazing as the first time. When we do something so often in life, we can easily take it for granted, and it can become routine. However, we need to be careful that receiving The Body and Blood of Christ does not become routine. Each time is different. The other day, I was reading the reflections of St. Alphonsus Liguori on the Eucharist and thinking about the experiences that some of the saints had while receiving Communion. For instance, some saints had mystical experiences with Jesus after communion. St. Giuseppe of Cupertino would levitate at Communion. He also levitated at the mere thought of Jesus (even church bells would draw the saint closer to heaven). There are some people who lived being fed only by The Body of Christ. This miracle is called “inedia.” Some lived for more than 10 years solely on the Eucharist. Imagine how impressive that is. I have capitalized the “T” in “The Body of Christ” because it is The one and same Body that was born of Mary and was crucified on the Cross. When we receive Communion, we receive the very Body of Christ. It is not an image, a representation, or a symbol. There is a transformation of the substance of bread into The Body of Christ during consecration. We call it “transubstantiation.” In history, some people have failed to understand it, and this has caused great misunderstanding and error in other beliefs. For instance, Protestants do not believe that The Body of Christ is in the Eucharist. As the children have prepared themselves over the past two years, it is also important that we prepare ourselves to receive Communion. We often urge you to begin by preparing your souls by going to confession. Then, we should also dress up for such the special occasion. It would also be nice to arrive early, find good seats, and pray before the beginning of Mass. I understand that at times things happen as we come to church that delay us. However, as much as possible, it is important to arrive early, and prepare ourselves for this special moment. We hear in the Gospel that Jesus has prepared a place in heaven for us. He gives us His Body to strengthen us in that journey. Let us not miss this great opportunity. As the children receive their Communion for the first time, let us also have the same attitude and awe this Sunday! God Bless, Fr. Steven