From Fr. Steven - September 1, 2024

Father Steven Clemence • August 30, 2024


Dear Brothers and Sisters, 

 

I hope you are enjoying these last days of summer! Please see the letter below from Fr. Gabriel.

 

God Bless,

Fr. Steven

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I remember being a child and talking to my father about the mass; I had some understanding of how it related to Jesus’s life, the Last Supper, and his sacrifice on the cross. And I remember turning to my father seeking clarity by asking, “so the mass is like a symbol of what Jesus did, right?”

 

My dad responded firmly saying, “it’s not a symbol! You are really there!”…I was terribly confused. But he kept repeating it to me, “it’s not a symbol, when we celebrate the mass we are there with Christ, his sacrifice is made present. We are united to that moment.”

 

It was something that I would come back to study when I was in the seminary, that Christ is truly present in his body and blood, it’s not a simple commemoration of the past; that when we priest’s say “do this in memory of me” we really are brought into Christ’s sacrifice.

 

This brings me to ponder how God is so great that his “memory” is capable of really drawing the past into the present. It’s not just nostalgia of a sweet moment that’s gone by and we reminisce about. When we celebrate the mass we are really there with Jesus Christ.

 

On the other hand what has also been striking to reflect on is the power of the Lord’s forgetfulness. Recently I came across a story I had heard sometime ago about Saint Margaret Mary, who would receive visions of Jesus Christ. And Jesus once told her to seek out a certain priest to be her spiritual director. When she told the priest about her request, he was skeptical and asked her to prove that she was really having visions of Jesus by having him divulge to her the last mortal sin that he had confessed. Later on the two met again, Margaret Mary told the priest that she did as he requested and that Jesus responded saying, “I can’t remember.”

 

Such is the mercy of God. He no longer remembers the sins we confess. But this truth runs even deeper. In the sacrament of confession we get a real taste of our Lord’s forgetfulness. His amnesia is so powerful that what he forgets is totally erased. That is to say that when God forgets our sins they no longer exist, they are totally gone.

 

Often times we return to the sins committed in the past and dwelling on them we fall back into shame and regret. And while it is important to be sorry for what we have done it is not for us to go back and scratch at the wounds of sins that the Lord has already forgiven and healed. It may be quite difficult to believe that the Lord has forgiven us because of the gravity of our sins, but Christ has promised that all sins will be forgiven and that we are called to forgive each time, because he forgives us every single time.

 

If you are doubting of the Lord’s forgiveness I challenge you to come to confession during our weekly hours or to set up an appointment with one of us priests, because God seeks to heal you, restore you, and quickly forget whatever it is you have done.

 

In Christ,

Fr. Gabriel Hanley

 

From Father Steven - March 29, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • March 27, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, Here we are in the most holy week of the year! I hope you had a fruitful Lent, preparing your souls for this moment. I would like to share a brief reflection with you for each day of this upcoming week.  You might have noticed last week that all the sacred images and statues were covered. The Church recommends covering them after the Fifth Sunday of Lent to help us focus more deeply on Christ and to heighten our longing for Easter Sunday. When we walk into the church and notice that things are different, we sense that something significant is about to happen. These final days of Lent are meant to be a time of preparation for the Sacred Triduum, and these veils serve as a powerful reminder to get ready. We begin Holy Week with the celebration of Palm Sunday. The technical name for this Sunday is “Palm Sunday of the Lord’s Passion.” As you may recall, we proclaim two Gospels: one recounting the triumphant entry of Jesus into Jerusalem at the beginning of Mass, and another, at the usual time, recounting the Passion according to one of the Synoptic Gospels (Matthew, Mark, or Luke). These two passages are important, as they direct us toward Easter. They help us meditate on the events of Holy Thursday and Good Friday with hearts that long for the Resurrection of Christ. On Thursday, as we begin the Triduum, we celebrate the Lord’s Last Supper. Although it is often associated with the washing of the feet, there are two other essential elements to remember. The washing of the feet symbolizes fraternal love, as Christ loves and serves His disciples as His friends. At the Last Supper, we also celebrate the institution of the priesthood and the institution of the Eucharist. Not long ago, during the pandemic, we deeply missed receiving Communion. In this moment, we are reminded that Jesus gives us His Body and Blood as a gift to sustain us. During that time, we had to suspend the distribution of the Precious Blood, but now we are able to restore it. What better day to do so than the very day on which Jesus Himself instituted it? I encourage you to receive the Blood of Christ, not only because it is His desire, but also because the Church, especially since the Second Vatican Council, has affirmed that the faithful should have this opportunity. At the end of the celebration, we will process to the hall, where we are invited to keep vigil with Christ until midnight. On Good Friday, when Mass is not celebrated, we gather for the “Celebration of the Lord’s Passion.” In this service, we listen once again to the Passion, and we venerate the Cross of Jesus, as well as reflect on our own crosses. Jesus calls us to take up our cross and follow Him, though this is not always easy. On this day, we are invited to come forward to adore and kiss the Cross, trusting that Christ helps us carry our burdens. Finally, on Saturday evening (8:00PM) and Sunday morning (7:30AM and 11:00AM—there will be no 5:00PM Mass), we will gather to proclaim the Resurrection of Christ. As we accompany Him to the tomb and mourn His death, we will also come together to proclaim to the world that God is not dead—He is alive and desires to share His divine life with us. Last week, we heard St. Paul exhort us to live by the Spirit and not by the flesh. This is only possible if a new life is formed within us. That new life comes through the power of God, made present in the death and Resurrection of Christ. Just as God led His people from Egypt to the Promised Land, so too He desires to lead us into new life. Therefore, it is essential to approach these days with intentionality, striving to rise with Christ into a new life. God Bless, Fr. Steven

From Father Steven - March 22, 2026

By Father Steven Clemence • March 20, 2026
Dear Brothers and Sisters, As you may be aware, we are starting our next Bereavement Ministry on March 31st. This is the third session we are offering to those who have suffered the loss of a loved one. The loss can be a recent one or one from years ago. We will be following the Catholic program called Seasons of Hope. I encourage you to participate to find support and comfort within our faith-filled community. God Bless, Fr. Steven ——————————————————————— Bereavement Ministry: Seasons of Hope to Begin As we mourn together, our parish bereavement team of Nancy Papp, Mark Vital, and Nancy Wells would like to personally invite anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one to attend Immaculate Conception’s next bereavement session which will begin on Tuesday evening, March 31st at 6:30 pm in the Lower Church and continue for six consecutive Tuesday evenings ending on Tuesday, May 5th. There are no stages to grief. We all experience grief in our own unique way, and healing is an intentional process, where we gather as a community of faith to become disciples of hope. It is through prayerful reflection, practical learning, and personal fellowship that we mourn. We will be following the Catholic program called Seasons of Hope . It is a 6-week program based on Scripture that focuses our faith on the spiritual side of grieving. Our mission is to support and accompany those going through the grieving process through Scripture, prayer, reflection, and simple activities. The program centers on Jesus Christ and is founded in the wisdom, traditions, and practices of the Church. It provides an opportunity for those who are grieving to be together, share their experiences, listen to God, and to each other, and be heard and comforted. St. John of the Cross, a Carmelite and Doctor of the Church, said: “In sorrow and suffering, go straight to God with confidence, and you will be strengthened, enlightened and instructed.” Fr. Mike Schmitz (many of you know him from his Bible in a Year podcast) was asked in an interview once about suffering. He responded: “God doesn’t always take the pain away. God doesn’t take the grief away. God doesn’t undo your loved one’s death. But with hope, our faith in God can console us.” Once again, we warmly invite those mourning to “come and be comforted.” Please call Lee Ann at the parish office to register. This program has helped hundreds of people mourn the loss of a loved one. We are delighted to bring this ministry to you again and hope and pray you will consider attending. Thank you and please keep us and those we serve in your prayers. The Bereavement Team: Nancy Papp, Nancy Wells, Mark Vital